Your wedding. Your guests. Your peace of mind.
Every experience is designed with transparency, respect, and risk-reduction tools in mind, including identity verification, host approval, event rules, and reporting support.
Four commitments we make to everyone on the platform.
Verified Identities
Every guest and host completes government ID and biometric verification before transacting on the platform.
Authentic Weddings
Wedding hosts create listings to share available seats from their celebrations. Listings are reviewed before being published on the platform.
Hosts Choose Who Attends
Hosts review each request and personally decide who joins their celebration. No one is ever automatically admitted.
Private & Secure Payments
All payments are processed through Stripe. Cards are authorized at request and only charged after the couple approves.
“This may have been the most fun I’ve ever had at a wedding. I came to celebrate strangers and left with new friends.”
Guest | July 2026
Verified Identities & Fraud Prevention
We partner with Stripe Identity to help verify government-issued IDs, match biometric selfies, and detect potentially fraudulent activity. Verification helps ensure that hosts and guests are genuine participants on the platform.
- Government-issued ID verification
- Biometric selfie matching
- Fraud and risk screening
- Verification required for hosts and guests
Thoughtful Guest Access
Only approved guests receive event details such as venue information, arrival guidance, seating instructions, and any celebration-specific expectations set by the couple. This helps maintain a more private, intentional, and secure experience for everyone attending.
Guests are expected to respect all event guidelines established by the couple and venue.
Designed for Respectful Participation
Not a Wedding Crasher is built around consent, transparency, and mutual comfort. Couples decide who joins their celebration, and guests introduce themselves before requesting a seat.
Dedicated Support When it Matters
Our team is available to assist with safety concerns, suspicious behavior, urgent issues, or questions related to an upcoming event. We review every report carefully and may remove users or listings that violate our standards.