trust & Safety

Your wedding, your guests, your peace of mind.

At Not a Wedding Crasher, safety is the foundation of our platform. From identity verification to secure interactions, every experience is designed to be transparent, respectful, and protected from start to finish.

Safety Pillars

List your Seats

Couples create a listing and set a price for any unused seats.

Request to Attend

Guests browse weddings and sumbit a request

Get Approved

Hosts review profiles and approve guests.

Verified Users
Only

Every member of our community must complete a secure government ID verification process through a secure third party. There are no anonymous accounts and no hidden identities. This ensures that every interaction begins from a place of authenticity, accountability, and trust.

Authentic Wedding Listings

All weddings undergo human review before going live. We confirm venue information, dates, and host identity to prevent fraudulent or misleading listings. Only real weddings hosted by real couples appear on the platform.

Couples Approve Every Guest

Guests never attend automatically. Every applicant is reviewed and approved directly by the couple, giving hosts complete control over who they welcome to their celebration.

Privacy & Secure Payments

Personal information for both hosts and guests is protected. Contact details remain private, and all payments are processed through Stripe using industry-leading security standards.

Authentic Weddings Only

We partner with Stripe to verify government-issued IDs, authenticate selfies, and scan for fraudulent activity. This ensures that every person on the platform is who they claim to be.

Government ID verification
Biometric selfie match
Fraud detection algorithms
Required for all hosts and guests

List your Seats

Couples create a listing and set a price for any unused seats.

Request to Attend

Guests browse weddings and sumbit a request

Get Approved

Hosts review profiles and approve guests.

Authentic Weddings Only

Couples listing their wedding undergo a multi-step verification process. Before a wedding is published, our Trust & Safety team confirms event details, verifies venue information, and may request additional documentation if anything appears inconsistent. Only validated weddings become searchable on the platform.

Couples Review Every Guest

Guest applications include verified identity details, a short introduction, and optional (but highly recommended) photos or social links. Couples review each application independently and approve only the guests they choose. Guests attend only when explicitly approved.

Respectful Behavior is Required

Guests must follow all posted rules, venue guidelines, cultural traditions, and photography restrictions. Disruptive behavior including harassment, intoxication, or entering restricted areas is strictly prohibited. Violations may result in removal from the event, permanent account bans, or contacting authorities.

We Protect Your Privacy

Hosts and guests benefit from strict privacy protections. Personal contact information, private addresses, and sensitive data remain hidden unless voluntarily shared. All communication stays on the platform unless mutually agreed otherwise.

Group of well-dressed people sitting at table toasting champagne glasses

Smooth & Safe Wedding Experience

Only approved guests receive necessary event information including: venue address, arrival instructions, check‑in windows, seating guidance, and event‑specific rules. This ensures weddings remain intimate and secure.
Guests must follow all check‑in procedures and remain within permitted areas.